“You don’t become what you want, you become what you believe”— Oprah Winfrey

Dear Sir,

Sometimes the most dangerous jealousy comes not from strangers but from the ones closest to you — the ones who smile in your face while secretly resenting your growth, your light, your peace.

They celebrate you just enough to stay close but, deep down, they’re keeping score, silently rooting for your stumble. Their love feels warm, yet something always feels off — a subtle tension, a backhanded compliment, a quiet withdrawal when you shine too brightly.

This kind of hidden envy is the most painful because it wears the mask of loyalty. Trust your gut. Not every bond is built on love — some are bound by silent competition.

Self-love and self-confidence are not luxuries. They are necessities.

To walk in your truth, to own your presence without apology, is a revolutionary act in a world that often profits from your self-doubt. When you radiate effortlessly — when your light shines without performance or pretence — you will naturally attract attention. But that same light, so pure and unbothered, can stir shadows in others.

Not everyone who applauds you is genuinely clapping from a place of love. Some are simply marking time, waiting for your misstep. Waiting for your flame to flicker. And the truth that stings the most? You didn’t seek the spotlight. You were just showing up as you. With your heart unguarded, your energy honest and your spirit unapologetically loud.

So stay rooted in love — for yourself. Trust your instincts. Guard your peace. Protect your light, not out of fear, but out of reverence for the rarity that you are.

Be kind, yes. But don’t be naive. Wolves often wear familiar faces. And envy can disguise itself in praise.

Still, don’t dim.

Let them watch. Let them talk. Let them wonder what makes you shine so boldly.

And then shine even brighter.

SHERVONNE CASH HOLLIS

Devonshire